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You Can Say No. A Note on Informed Consent in Labor advocacy birth pregnancy Sep 08, 2026

Somewhere along the way, "informed consent" turned into a piece of paper you sign in the intake packet along with your insurance card and your emergency contact.

That is not what it is... Not even cl...

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What Do I Actually DO With My Hands? A Partner's Guide to Comfort Measures advocacy birth labor partner Aug 19, 2026

HEY BIRTH PARTNERS! LISTEN UPPPPPP! 

Yes, you. Here is a moment I have watched play out more times than I can count as a birth doula. Contraction hits, she grabs the doorframe, the counter, your hand...

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Preparing for a Redemptive Birth (After One That Wasn't) advocacy birth pregnancy Aug 05, 2026

There's a specific kind of pregnant that I don't think gets talked about enough. It's not the glowing, excited, "we finally get to do this again" pregnant. It's the kind where you're excited AND your ...

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How to Be Supported During Birth (What It Actually Looks Like) advocacy birth doula labor partner Jul 22, 2026

When you Google "how to be supported during birth," you get roughly 400 versions of the same three answers:

  1. Hire a doula.
  2. Bring your partner.
  3. Talk to your provider.

Cool. Very helpful. Now wha...

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"Isn't It Too Early to Take a Birth Class?" (No. And Here's Why.) birth pregnancy Jul 01, 2026

I get a version of this message all the time:

"I'm only 16 weeks... is it too early to start preparing for birth?"

And every time, I want to gently take that person by the hands and say: friend, you...

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"At Least the Baby Is Healthy" Is Not the Compliment You Think It Is advocacy birth doula labor postpartum Jun 24, 2026

Let me say something that might ruffle some feathers.

A healthy baby is not all that matters.

Before anyone comes for me: YES, a healthy baby matters. Enormously. It is the thing every single parent...

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But The Hospital Said "That's Our Policy." advocacy birth labor May 27, 2026

Let me tell you something that nobody puts in your hospital welcome packet or hospital sponsored birth class.

Hospital policies are not laws.

They are not medical requirements. They are not diagnose...

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My Mom Pushed a Car Up a Hill to Start Her Labor. birth labor May 06, 2026

Let me tell you about my mom.

She is, genuinely, a superhuman. A kindergarten teacher (which alone should qualify her for sainthood, hazard pay, and a permanent vacation) and also the kind of mom who...

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Is This Real Labor or Am I Being Gaslit By My Own Uterus? birth labor Apr 29, 2026

Let me set the scene.

It's 11pm. You've been timing contractions for two hours. They're every 7-12 minutes. They hurt. You text your partner, you call your doula, you start dragging your hospital bag...

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Birth and Death Feel More Alike Than We Admit birth death Apr 27, 2026

This week was an odd one. I supported 3 births while also supporting 1 death.

As I moved between labors and hospice FaceTimes over the past few days, I couldn’t help but think about how similar bir...

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For Pregnant And Postpartum Parents Who Don’t Want To "Wing It"

Join our Newsletter for tips, tricks, thoughts, and more! So you're not scrambling through pregnacy and postpartum. 

You Can Say No. A Note on Informed Consent in Labor

Sep 08, 2026

You Can Say No. A Note on Informed Consent in Labor

Sep 08, 2026

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